another things she does - Divorce screws up most relationships — not just the one that's ending. Even when adult children feel equipped to act as their parents' primary support systems, as Scott did, taking on one parent's emotional burdens can change the way she or he views the other parent, placing strain on that relationship.
Interesting: "Your children are still your children, even if they are 30 years old," Emery told Mic. "Information should be shared only on a 'need to know basis,' and children of any age don't need to know much. It isn't a child's job to help a family heal. It's a parent's job."